Son may appreciate in the future

It will be nice if a son sincerely communicate with his father. A caring father find it difficult to know his son is sick from an indirect source. Naturally, caring father try to find out from indirect source of information when a son mentioned that his ' happy memory is almost all from other sources.'

A son sick for more than 2 weeks can get second opinion from university professors, caring tutors, or at least look up internet information. Coughing and sick for a long period of time is definately not a simple cold or flu which usually last for a few days ( 3 to 6) when most body built sufficient antibodies against the virus.

Son ( or daughter) will learn to appreciate one day ( may be very soon ) the love and care provided naturally by the natural father.